• Invalidated pain is when someone else dismisses your experience—“It wasn’t that bad,” “At least it’s over,” or “You should be grateful.” These words can cut deeper than the wound itself.
• Unvalidated pain is what happens when we internalize that message. We begin to believe our pain isn’t real or worthy of attention. We bury it. We silence it. And eventually, we stop giving ourselves permission to feel it at all.
Both are equally harmful. And both can delay or derail our healing.
Restoring lives, one
turn toward hope.